VOORUITBLIK VAN RICHARD KAY OP DE ONTHULLING VAN HET STANDBEELD VAN PRINSES DIANA IN DE ‘SUNKEN GARDEN’ VAN KENSINGTON PALACE, MIJN VERBINDENDE ELEMENTEN D.D. 25 JUNI VANAF 1995, PRINSJESDAG 1998, SPEEDWELL, PRINCE HARRY IS HOME EN ‘QUEEN BEAMS TO CANADA’

Aansluitend aan mijn bericht MIJN VERBINDENDE ELEMENTEN D.D. 24 JUNI VANAF 1987, DE LOF DER ZOTHEID VAN ERASMUS EN MIJN BRIEF VAN 18 SEPTEMBER 1998  AAN HIS ROYAL HIGHNESS THE PRINCE OF WALES MET KOPIE AAN DE PRIME MINISTER gaat mijn aandacht thans uit naar mijn brief Mondriaan van 17 september 1998 met in het bijzonder onderstaande bijlagen.

1998091704 JH/LH Mondriaan Bijlage Fotocollage Vaderlandse Geschiedenis week 37 en 38
1998091705 JH/LH Mondriaan Bijlage Brief van D&D Producties Hilversum d.d. 27 maart 1998

08:57 Ontvangen Princes William Harry drastically scale unveiling statue Princess Diana Covid Princes slash Diana ceremony guest list: William and Harry drastically scale back unveiling of the statue of Princess of Wales because of Covid rules. Brothers were due to put aside bitter rift to host an elaborate ceremony on July 1. They will preside over a significantly reduced gathering with a handful of guests. Pair had planned for more than 100 of Diana’s friends, ex-staff and supporters. Guests told large ceremony scrapped and a new date will be fixed for September. By Richard Kay Editor At Large For The Daily Mail

Published: 22:07 BST, 24 June 2021 | Updated: 06:46 BST, 25 June 2021 Princes William and Harry have drastically scaled back next week’s unveiling of the statue of Princess Diana, the Daily Mail  can reveal. The brothers were due to put aside their bitter rift to host an elaborate ceremony on July 1 at Kensington Palace, her former home, on what would have been their mother’s 60th birthday. Instead they will preside over a significantly reduced gathering featuring just a handful of guests – the estranged princes themselves and Spencer relatives. Up until this week they had been planning to welcome more than 100 of their mother’s friends, former staff and supporters. But Covid rules have pressed them into a rethink. Guests have been told that next Thursday’s large ceremony has been scrapped and that a new date will be fixed for September. It is a bitter disappointment for many in Diana’s circle who had hoped their presence would help bring about a reconciliation between William and his brother. They have been barely on speaking terms since Harry and Meghan quit royal life for California. Whether this makes a rapprochement that much easier remains to be seen. The pair have privately told friends that they will do their utmost to ensure their differences do not distract from what they hope will be a moving celebration to recognise their mother’s ‘positive impact’. Ever since they announced plans for the statue it has been bedevilled by problems. Originally it was hoped to be unveiled in 2017. But there were delays over the design and, according to insiders, differences of opinion over what period in Diana’s life the statue should represent.  Such divisions led the committee set up after her death in 1997 in order to find a suitable way to celebrate her life to conclude that a statue would be wrong. At the time, her family expressed reservations that no sculptor had ever properly ‘caught’ Diana. There were also real fears that a statue would become a shrine.  Those fears have not subsided but with the passing years, William and Harry felt the time was right for a life-size figure. They sought private donations to fund the statue, which has been created by artist Ian Rank-Broadley, whose portrait of the Queen appears on all British coins. The statue was finished in 2018, but Harry and Meghan’s wedding and Megxit delayed the unveiling. Donors including Elton John and David Furnish will now be invited to September’s party along with other friends and family – but there is no guarantee Harry will be there. So while many watching on Thursday will be keen to see how the artist has imagined Diana, many more will be searching for any sign that the warring brothers can settle their differences.

Vanuit deze achtergrond memoreer ik mijn verbindende elementen d.d. 25 juni vanaf 1995 tot en met 2012: 1995 Foto’s Slotdag van de Lionsclub Maarn-Maarsbergen in Vorden en Kasteel Doornenburg on der het motto ‘Help de adel in het zadel’

1995062501 Slotdag Vorden Help de adel in het zadel
1995062502 Slotdag Vorden Help de adel in het zadel
1995062503 Slotdag Vorden Help de adel in het zadel
1995062504 Slotdag Vorden Help de adel in het zadel Ramon en Mark van der Heijden
1995062505 Slotdag Vorden Help de adel in het zadel
1995062507 Slotdag Vorden Help de adel in het zadel Hans Storm van ‘s-Gravezande
1995062508 Slotdag Vorden Help de adel in het zadel Hans Storm van ‘s-Gravezande
1995062509 Slotdag Vorden Help de adel in het zadel Ton Hessing
1995062510 Slotdag Vorden Help de adel in het zadel
1995062511 Slotdag Vorden Help de adel in het zadel
1995062512 Slotdag Vorden Help de adel in het zadel Tussenstop
1995062513 Slotdag Vorden Help de adel in het zadel Rustpauze
1995062514 Slotdag Vorden Help de adel in het zadel Het Onstein
1995062515 Slotdag Vorden Help de adel in het zadel Lekke band
1995062516 Slotdag Vorden Help de adel in het zadel
1995062517 Slotdag Vorden Help de adel in het zadel
1995062518 Slotdag Vorden Help de adel in het zadel Fred Warnaar, Loek van Munster en Ab van Gorcum
1995062519 Slotdag Vorden Help de adel in het zadel
1995062520 Slotdag Vorden Help de adel in het zadel
1995062522 Slotdag Vorden Help de adel in het zadel Kasteel Vorden
1995062523 Slotdag Vorden Help de adel in het zadel
1995062524 Slotdag Vorden Help de adel in het zadel
1995062525 Slotdag Vorden Help de adel in het zadel
199505062533 Slotdag Doornenburg
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199505062537 Slotdag Doornenburg John van der Heyden en Jan Wilzing
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199505062544 Slotdag Doornenburg Van der Heijdenkamer
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199505062550 Slotdag Doornenburg John van der Heyden
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199505062556 Slotdag Doornenburg
199505062557 Slotdag Doornenburg
199505062558 Slotdag Doornenburg Jan Wilzing
199505062559 Slotdag Doornenburg Jan Wilzing en Hans Storm van ‘s-Gravezande
199505062560 Slotdag Doornenburg Jan Wilzing en Hans Storm van ‘s-Gravezande
199505062561 Slotdag Doornenburg Slotheer Hans Storm van ‘s-Gravezande
1995050625612 Kasteel De Doornenburg

1996 Justitie Arnhem 1997

19970625 Een bericht uit Hoorn

Auction of your dresses in New YorkYour reference 240 67551 27448New activities 1999 Planning (2)

Bericht van Ron Westwood inzake mijn Letters to Diana Princess of Wales

2001 Comparitie van partijenLetters to Diana

20010625 Verzendbewijs van brief aan Joti Bryant van Trafford Publishing in Victoria British Columbia Canada

2002 Nieuwsbrief 007Aanslag 681.87.038.H.96  – Aanslag 1999 Uw ref: 035845.0 2004 Een laatste kattenbelletje 2005 The Biographer  2006 De Koning 2007 John van der Heyden en Emily Bremers 2010 Berichtgeving aan Alexander Pechtold, Johan Agricola en Liesbeth HalbertsmaPaars Plus UltraHet Valkhof in mijn Brieven aan Diana, Prinses van WalesA galopar, a galopar van Paco Ibáñez en Rafael Alberti en 2012 El elogio de la locura

Ik vind het een goed idee van Richard Kay om de onthulling van het standbeeld van Diana tot september uit te stellen en al mijn gesignaleerde problemen tot een goed einde zijn gebracht. Richard Kay is de enige journalist in de wereld die steeds permanent met Prinses Diana persoonlijk in contact heeft gestaan en dus precies zal weten hoe de vork in de steel  zit. In dit verband denk ik terug aan mijn brief Troonrede 1998 van 16 september 1998: “Woensdag 16 september 1998. Ik begin al aardig gesteld te raken op Hare Majesteit. Maar ik wil uiteraard geen problemen met Haar echtgenoot. Vandaar dat ik mij beperk tot het overnemen van enkele punten uit Haar troonrede welke in het verlengde liggen van mijn First State of the Union van september 1996. Op dit moment worden in de Tweede Kamer de begrotingsdebatten gehouden. Daarbij is er gesproken over het stoppen van de gaten in de paarse sokken. Al bij al is het uiteraard wel van belang dat men zich realiseert dat er hierbij sprake is van de gaten in mijn sokken. In dat verband hoop ik dat de Koninklijke Vereniging van Leden der Nederlandse Ridderorden morgen besluit de door mij gemaakte onkosten te vergoeden. Een van de meest wezenlijke punten in het kader van mijn nieuwe businessplan is punt 11. In dit verband lees ik het artikel in de Telegraaf van vandaag met de volgende tekst: “Ybema: “Meer steun bij starten eigen bedrijf”. Dit artikel is mij uit het hart gegrepen. Peter Ottenhoff heeft deze situatie reeds in 1986 en 1987 in vele gesprekken, die ik als toehoorder heb bijgewoond, aan de orde gesteld. Al vanaf 1991 ben ik nu aan het werk om belangstelling voor mijn plannen te krijgen. Er heeft zich echter in die afgelopen zeven jaar nog niemand aangediend die spontaan heeft gezegd” “Ik doe mee”. “Waar ligt dat aan?” vraag ik mij dus af. Deze keer is het Gerrit Ybema die het antwoord heeft gegeven, aansluitend aan zijn voorganger Hans Wijers. In dit verband denk ik aan de kaars die ik boven mijn bed heb liggen uit Het Stadhouderlijk Hof van kerstmis 1996 in een wikkel uit The Leicester Arms van kerstmis 1997 in Londen. Die kaars zal ik nooit aansteken. Rik Felderhof kan wel voor een nieuwe vooraad nieuwe kaarsen zorgen in St. Tropez. Daarom heb ik zoëven (14.00) André van der Elzen gebeld. Ik kreeg zijn secretaresse aan de telefoon. Zij verzoekt hem mij terug te bellen. Die fijne kam kun je dus ook halen door mijn Cartas a Christina die ik je hierbij doe toekomen. Ik volg nog even de begrotingsdebatten en stel vast dat men het aanstuurt op een volledige verpaarsing van het regeringsbeleid. Het is een positieve discussie. De heer Melkert heeft mijn idee al overgenomen om een State of the European Union te houden. Dat doet mij deugd uiteraard. Zeker aangezien ik daartoe reeds het initiatief heb genomen twee jaar geleden. Graag tot ziens in ’t Goude Hooft. Hieronder: Cartas a Christina cf. brief Christina. P.S. Het is moeilijk bescheiden te blijven. Ik heb nog even contact gehad met André van der Elzen. Felderhof was geschrokken van mijn bezoek en durft de uitzending blijkbaar niet aan.”.

Die ‘Cartas a Christina’ zijn brieven en faxberichten die ik heb gestuurd aan een Duitse in Zwitserland woonachtige jongedame met de naam Christina Messer. Het zijn zeer persoonlijke Spaanstalige ontboezemingen en ik ben blij dat ik de kopieën van die berichten heb teruggevonden. Zij dateren van respectievelijk 9 mei 1992, 16 juli 1992, 16 november 1992, 7 januari 1993, 9 februari 1993, 20 februari 1993, 7 maart 1993, 22 maart 1993, 26 maart 1993, 20 april 1993, 10 juli 1993, 26 juli 1993, 23 augustus 1993, 27 oktober 1993 (Ref. De  Stichting Beroepsgerichte Opleidingen en de Stichting Nieuw Elan) en 29 maart 1994. Ik heb haar leren kennen op het instituut don Quijote te Salamanca. Nadat wij intensief met elkaar van gedachten hadden gewisseld heeft zij besloten om met mij het appartement te delen in de Calle Fernando de la Peña. Zij is ook getuige geweest bij mijn bezoek aan de plaatselijke comisaría nadat er een koperen bout door de achterruit van mijn Mazda was gegooid in de nacht van 5 op 6 mei 1992. In augustus 1993 is zij met haar zuster Barbara bij mij te gast geweest. Barbara had in Zuid-Afrika gewoond en Christina bezocht de Tempel van Cheops in Egypte in dezelfde tijd als Diana. Daar ligt dus weer een aanknopingspunt.

14:14 Ontvangen Harry chauffeured LAX fly London unveiling statue mother Diana Harry’s touch down before showdown: Prince lands at Heathrow to be whisked for five-day self-isolation ahead of facing William at unveiling of Diana statue – after leaving Meghan and children at home in LA. Duke of Sussex arrives at Heathrow today in time to serve out ‘amber list’ quarantine at Frogmore Cottage. Lands at 12.38pm having left Los Angeles Airport on Boeing 777-323 on American Airlines flight last night. Harry is due to appear next Thursday alongside brother William at unveiling of new statue of mother Diana. Brothers commissioned statue and it will be first time they have reunited since Prince Philip’s funeral in April By Mark Duell for MailOnline and Richard Kay for the Daily Mail and Peter Belfiore and Christopher Eberhart For Dailymail.ComPublished: 02:48 BST, 25 June 2021 | Updated: 13:02 BST, 25 June 2021

Prince Harry landed at London Heathrow Airport this afternoon to begin his five days of self-isolation ahead of attending the unveiling of a statue of his late mother Princess Diana next Thursday.The Duke of Sussex has arrived in time to serve out his ‘amber list’ quarantine at Frogmore Cottage before the event on July 1, on what is his first trip back home since his grandfather Prince Philip’s funeral ten weeks ago. Harry touched down at Heathrow’s Terminal Five at 12.38pm today on a Boeing 777-323 on American Airlines flight AA134, which left Los Angeles International Airport last night at about 7pm local time (3am UK time today).  Those arriving in England from amber list countries must normally quarantine for ten days, but can end this early after five days under ‘test to release’ if they pay for a Covid-19 test on day five, in addition to a test on day two. Harry was pictured yesterday evening in a car on the way to the airport in California, as he prepares for what promises to be an emotional visit to unveil the statue of Diana on what would have been her 60th birthday. The Duke, 36, was photographed being driven by a chauffeur in a California-registered 2021 Cadillac Escalade which is worth £55,000 new and can do 0-60mph in 5.9 seconds and has a top speed of 130mph. His wife Meghan Markle is remaining at their £11million mansion in Montecito with two-year-old Archie and their second child, Lilibet Diana Mountbatten-Windsor, who was born 21 days ago at Santa Barbara Cottage Hospital. Next week, Harry will join his brother Prince William at their first meeting since the Duke of Edinburgh’s funeral at Windsor Castle on April 17 amid continuing friction following a series of explosive claims in US interviews. It comes as the Daily Mail revealed today that William and Harry have had to drastically scale back the statue unveiling. The brothers were due to put aside their bitter rift to host an elaborate ceremony on July 1 at Kensington Palace, her former home. Instead they will preside over a significantly reduced gathering featuring just a handful of guests – the estranged princes themselves and Spencer relatives. Up until this week they had been planning to welcome more than 100 of their mother’s friends, former staff and supporters. But Covid rules have pressed them into a rethink. Guests have been told that next Thursday’s large ceremony has been scrapped and that a new date will be fixed for September. It is a bitter disappointment for many in Diana’s circle who had hoped their presence would help bring about a reconciliation between William and his brother. They have been barely on speaking terms since Harry and Meghan quit royal life for California. Whether this makes a rapprochement that much easier remains to be seen. The pair have privately told friends that they will do their utmost to ensure their differences do not distract from what they hope will be a moving celebration to recognise their mother’s ‘positive impact’. Ever since they announced plans for the statue it has been bedevilled by problems. Originally it was hoped to be unveiled in 2017. But there were delays over the design and, according to insiders, differences of opinion over what period in Diana’s life the statue should represent. Such divisions led the committee – set up after her death in 1997 in order to find a suitable way to celebrate her life – to conclude that a statue would be wrong. At the time, her family expressed reservations that no sculptor had ever properly ‘caught’ Diana. There were also real fears that a statue would become a shrine.  Those fears have not subsided but with the passing years, William and Harry felt the time was right for a life-size figure.  They sought private donations to fund the statue, which has been created by artist Ian Rank-Broadley, whose portrait of the Queen appears on all British coins. The statue was finished in 2018, but Harry and Meghan’s wedding and Megxit delayed the unveiling. Donors including Elton John and David Furnish will now be invited to September’s party along with other friends and family – but there is no guarantee Harry will be there. So while many watching on Thursday will be keen to see how the artist has imagined Diana, many more will be searching for any sign that the warring brothers can settle their differences. During the family gathering, Kate Middleton is set to help William and Harry put on a united front, reports say, after she agreed to attend the ceremony. An insider said the 39-year-old Duchess of Cambridge had seen the project since the beginning and would want to be there to support her husband. It comes after it was claimed Kate and William did not have a sit-down conversation with Harry after Prince Philip’s funeral because they feared details would be leaked. Royal historian Robert Lacey said the chat did not happened because the Cambridges were worried their comments would be given to the US press. The row has intensified in recent weeks following the birth of Harry and Meghan’s daughter, Lilibet – the name Prince Philip affectionately used for the Queen. Claims from the BBC then followed that the monarch had not been consulted, but the couple’s lawyers said it was ‘false and defamatory’ to suggest they did not discuss using the name with Her Majesty.  Lilibet has not been seen in public yet, although the Queen has reportedly met her over a video call. Mr Lacey said the meeting needs to have far more substance than just appearing for the cameras if the rift is to begin to heal. He told ITV’s Good Morning Britain: ‘Surely when they’re gathered together to honor their mother and what Diana stood for, that will be the time when we can hope for some sort of reconciliation and serious talk. ‘Otherwise if they just appear together in public in front of the statue and there’s nothing more, I think we would rightly conclude that it’s a superficial gesture.’ Mr Lacey also reflected on the brothers’ recent appearance at their grandfather, Prince Philip’s funeral, and how their relationship has altered since Harry and Meghan’s bombshell interview with Oprah Winfrey. ‘A funeral would be when you would hope brothers thinking of other things, honoring their grandfather, would come together,’ he said.  ‘I’m not saying when they walked together across that courtyard it was fake. As we saw, Kate rather skillfully brought the two together, but apparently nothing came of it once they got inside. ‘Certainly the reports they had a big family sit down were sadly denied on both sides.’  Harry is leaving wife Meghan Markle, who has recently given birth, back at their California mansion to take part in the unveiling of the statue.  Frogmore Cottage was initially gifted to Harry and Meghan by the Queen after the couple’s wedding. But they gave up the property after dramatically quitting frontline royal duties and moving to the US. The keys were later handed to Princess Eugenie, who is living there with husband Jack Brooksbank and their recently born first child August. According to the Sun, the house has been divided into two parts to make it Covid safe for Harry’s arrival. A source told the paper: ‘Eugenie and Jack were handed the keys last year and told they could use it while Harry and Meghan were in America. ‘The cottage is now literally split into two, meaning Harry can isolate in one half of the house without ever coming into contact with his cousin and her family.’  There was some drama when Harry was at the Los Angeles International Airport yesterday as a car crashed through the perimeter of the facility’s fence and its driver chased by police. Around 20 police cars could be seen just off an LAX runway surrounding a car that authorities say crashed through a fence. The incident happened around 6pm local time – less than an hour before Prince Harry was set to take off. It wasn’t clear why the car crashed through the fence. The man driving the car was apprehended, LAX Police told DailyMail.com. There were no injuries, police said. 

In dit verband lijkt mij mijn verslag van Prinsjesdag 1998 ook veelzeggend.

1998091501 JH/LH Prinsjesdag
1998091502 JH/LH Prinsjesdag
1998091503 JH/LH Prinsjesdag Bijlage Toegangsbewijs tot de tribune op het Lange Voorhout

1998091504 JH/LH Prinsjesdag Bijlage BEWIJS VAN DEELNAME VAN SPEEDWELL

‘Speedwell’ is onder meer vermeld in

Cervantes Verenigde Staten van Noord-Amerika

19960731 Bevestiging deelname aan de dagtocht ‘Prinsjesdag’ van SPEEDWELL op dinsdag 17 september 1996
1998091504 JH/LH Prinsjesdag Bijlage BEWIJS VAN DEELNAME VAN SPEEDWELL
19970618  Brief van SPEEDWELL Reisbureaux B.V.

Procedure 97 / 2152 RWNL AZ – – Fax message to Mrs Van Putten CleveringaOntvangstbevestigingMy Dear Royal HighnessVoortgangsrapportageThe fifth roseProcedure 97 / 2152 BELEI R08 II G32Windsor Castle, Eton College and the Princess of Wales ConservatoryLetter to Mr Hans Backes about my Marriage Proposal  – De Hertogin van Neerbosch-OostKelly FisherDutch American Heritage DayEen fantastische middag in DelfshavenRoyal Cervantes Airlines in de maakSpeedwellDe eigenaar van FulhamSluiting van het 45ste Internationale Congres van de AAsociación Europea de Profesores de Español in La Coruña en banket in het Hotel HesperiaDr. Dofferhoff en communicatie met Thomas Triebels (R.I.P.)Terwijl de Tweede Kamer vergadert en William en Kate gaan trouwen.

16:47 Ontvangen: Prince Harry is home. Dan zal hij ook wel geïnteresseerd zijn in onderstaande handgeschreven Nederlandstalige brieven van ‘Uncle John’.

1998091404 JH/LH Christina Bijlage Handgeschreven Diana en het paranormale (Deel 2)
1998091405 JH/LH Christina Bijlage Handgeschreven Diana en het paranormale (Deel 2)
1998091406 JH/LH Christina Bijlage Handgeschreven Diana en het paranormale (Deel 2)
1998091407 JH/LH Christina Bijlage Handgeschreven Diana en het paranormale (Deel 2)
1998091408 JH/LH Christina Bijlage Handgeschreven Diana en het paranormale (Deel 2)
1998091409 JH/LH Christina Bijlage Handgeschreven Diana en het paranormale (Deel 2)
1998091410 JH/LH Christina Bijlage Handgeschreven Diana en het paranormale (Deel 2)

17:40 Voor nadere informatie kan hij zich ook wenden tot Ivo. Voormalig Minister van Veiligheid en Justitie van het Koninkrijk der Nederlanden en Burgemeester van Utrecht.  

Ik ontving ook de mededeling ‘Queen beams to Canada’. Vanuit deze achtergrond gaan mijn gedachten thans uit naar William.

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1998090805 JH/LH William Bijlage Kopie enveloppe van de brief van Rennert Bilingual, 216 E. 45TH NYC 10017 216 E. 45Th NYC 1007 USA, gericht aan Mr John van der Heyden, INSTITUTO CERVANTES BENELUX, Neude 30C, 3512 AG Utrecht, Holland, poststempel 3 september 1998

1998090806 JH/LH William Bijlage Brief van César Rennert and the staff of Rennert Bilingual  d.d. 28-08-98
1998090807 JH/LH William Bijlage Kleurenkopie van Mi Lady in Red d.d. 8-10-1996
1998090808 JH/LH William Bijlage Artikel ‘Ze brengen er niets van terecht’ uit Beau Monde  september 1998′ Pagina 37
1998090809 JH/LH William Bijlage Artikel ‘Ze brengen er niets van terecht’ uit Beau Monde  september 1998′ Pagina 38
1998090810 JH/LH William Bijlage Artikel ‘Ze brengen er niets van terecht’ uit Beau Monde september 1998′ Pagina 39
1998090811 JH/LH William Bijlage Artikel ‘Ze brengen er niets van terecht’ uit Beau Monde september 1998′ Pagina 40
1998090812 JH/LH William Bijlage Artikel ‘Ze brengen er niets van terecht’ uit Beau Monde september 1998′ Pagina 41

So, und jetzt ein Bavaria.

23:23 Mijn keuze voor vanavond Love Shine a Light – Katrina and The Waves

In dit verband constateer ik dat terzake steeds meer mensen zich mengen in Onze Rechten zonder mijn toestemming.